Monday, June 30, 2008

Out of cyberspace...

This month, my siblings and I are taking a sabbatical from computer. Similar to the Technology Free week we've done in the past, we are going to spend the last whole month of summer "vacation" finding more productive things to do. The last week we will be at our Granny's, so although we may possibly be on the computer (it's our vacation, after all) most likely we will not go online. During this month, I hope to read much more than I have been, before school starts back again!
The reason we are not breaking from all electronics is because we've found computer to be the most tempting one. We rarely watch T.V. or DVDs, we don't talk much on the phone rather than answering it, we don't listen to i-Pods much or play video games ever. Yet we will not use our "no-computer time" as an excuse to spend on other electronics. We are planning on finding productive and hard things to do. :) If you are interested in taking a week off or more from computer and/or other electronics, feel free to join us! This was a last minute decision (made late last night) so this post is late. Sorry about that.

For the next month, you will not see posts from Katie or myself. I have a scheduled post about ideas for summer productivity that you can check out next week on my blog Letter from Christ.

Have a blessed and productive month! :D

Friday, June 20, 2008

Do Hard Things

That's right, you heard me! Do Hard Things!

Alex and Brett Harris are the two teens who wrote the book, "Do Hard Things." This book was written to inspire teens to go above and beyond, and to break America's idea of what a teenager is. Alex and Brett have inspired many teenagers worldwide to expect more from their lives than what the world tells us to expect. I highly encourage you to purchase it and read it. Amazon currently has a deal on the book here. You can purchase it for $11.55.

I am halfway through the book and it is obviously a God-inspired book. I am going to try to get a review up sometime this July.

Do Hard Things truly is a teenage rebellion against low expectations.

The Importance of a Summer Schedule

What’s the first thing that comes to your mind when I say “summer”? I imagine it’s probably not the words “work” or “schedule”. Why? Because we tend to think of summer as free time—“me time”, time for fun. If this is your idea of summer, then you’re about to make a 360 degree turn in your thinking—if you choose to do so. :) Why is it important to stick to a summer schedule? Isn’t summer a time for relaxing and vacation, for T.V., swimming, and fun stuff? And aren’t schedules for school? I believe that many of us (including me) have had a wrong view of summer. When we have wrong thinking for a long time, it negatively affects us and is difficult to change. Trust me. It’s not easy to turn and say, “I’m not going to waste my summer away. I’m going to find productive things to do.” But it is essential, for spiritual growth and discipline, and development of character. We have to learn to take initiative to do hard things, learn new things, and spend time on productive things. If we choose to do nothing this summer, what will we have to say we gained or learned?

So, I’ve conveyed the importance of not wasting our summer, but instead finding productive things to do. Where does the schedule fit in? Can’t I do productive things without a schedule telling me what to do? You may be surprised to find the answer is yes. You can make good use of your summer without a summer schedule dictating your assignments. The only problem is this—you have most likely had a difficult time getting motivated to do difficult and productive things in previous summers. How will this one be any different? I find it much harder to stick to my original ideas and plans if I do not have a schedule. Your schedule may be as simple as a few hour time-frames that say, “do SOMETHING productive”, and you have a list of ideas of things that you could do during that time. I encourage you to at least have some sort of schedule, and if you stick to it, you will find yourself doing many more things that have future and eternal benefit. Now I’m not saying that this summer you may not touch a computer, watch T.V., or have any fun. I’m simply challenging you to try finding some more productive things to fill at least part of your time. You will find them to be much more rewarding and fulfilling!

If you want to be encouraged, challenged, and inspired, I encourage you to start by reading Do Hard Things, by Alex and Brett Harris. Here are two quotes from their book:

“We do what comes easily; we certainly don’t do hard things. The consequence? We waste some of the best years of our lives and never reach our full God-given potential. We never attempt things that would stretch, grow, and strengthen us. We end up weak and unprepared for the amazing future that could have been. We like the freedom low expectations give us, but we’re really being robbed.”

“Where expectations are high, we tend to rise to meet them. Where expectations are low, we tend to drop to meet them.”

P.S. I also posted this on Letter from Christ. :)

Tuesday, June 17, 2008

The Wisdom and Freedom of Courtship vs. Dating

THE WISDOM AND FREEDOM OF COURTSHIP VS. DATING
By Bill Gothard

Definition of Dating:Singling out one person of the opposite gender and cultivating interest through thoughts, looks, notes, talks, or events.

Definition of Courtship: Two fathers agreeing to work with a qualified young man to win the daughter for marriage.

Why Dating Causes Conflicts:

  • The motive is wrong—getting vs. giving
  • The goal is wrong—pleasure vs. commitment
  • The idea is wrong—human nature vs. limitations
  • The results are wrong—hurts vs. edification

The Rewards of Courtship:

  • Gives new freedom in friendships
  • Avoids envy and jealousy
  • Promotes self-control and moral purity
  • Eliminates defrauding and bitterness
  • Allows dedication to please the Lord (dating violates 1 Cor. 7:31-34)
  • Bases marriage on God’s will
  • Honors father’s authority

Requirements of Courtship:

  • A life purpose bigger than marriage
  • A “one-man, one-woman” commitment
  • A restraint of affection
  • A loyalty to parents
  • An ability to deal with infatuations
  • A readiness for marriage responsibilities

  • Monday, June 16, 2008

    Quote of the Week: June 16

    "It must be felt that there is no national security but in the nation's humble acknowledged dependence upon God and His overruling providence"

    -John Adams

    Monday, June 9, 2008

    Quote of the Week: June 9

    "Opportunity is missed by most people because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work."

    -Thomas Edison